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so who really is to blame ? do we blame
- the government/authoritise ?
- the parents?
- the individual themselves?
Yesterday was Brunei National Day. It was a good day. At night, I took my fiancee to dinner in Lambak, then we went to Jerudong Park’s food court to get food for our families. Because of the National Day celebration and the Firework show at Empire, the whole Jerudong area was packed with cars and bikes. (even Jerudong Beach was carpetted with cars) But thats not the issue, the issue Im speaking of is this; while I was driving around the food court in Jerudong, I was seeing too many cars parked with too many couples doing way too many things, things we’re not suppose to see – in public. I am alright with the intimate things that couples want to do, cause to be honest, I think it’s healthy if people want to explore their sexuality and experience new things at their young ages, it’s cool that they want to excel at satisfying their love ones, and its cool if they decided that this is their way to express themselves, but dont you think they could have done it someplace private ?
I even saw a guy who was grinding against his girlfriends body, whilst leaning to his car, with his friends next to him.
Have they got no shame ? Wheres the M and I from MIB ?
This is just Jerudong. What about Taman Jubilee? Bandar Seri Begawan? Gadong ? Qiulap ? It was like a mass public orgy.
Who is to blame ?
…. Our Tunas Bangsa
*Sigh*
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MIB is seen as just another subject that you need to pass in schools and to graduate from ubd.
Comment by amyheidi February 26, 2008 @ 12:31 amSome (not all) female students come to MIB lecture wearing tudung and baju kurungs, and upon finishing the lecture, the tudung is quickly removed.
These are muslims, as non-muslims are not required to wear tudung in MIB classes. Only muslims are expected to wear them.
Just yesterday, I saw a girl wearing the MD uniform sans tudung and her baju kurung is an almost transparent white, making her translucent bra visible, and as her bra is already translucent enough, you can clearly see her breasts’ skin tone, and she is in a room full of men.
I wouldn’t be surprised if a public orgy is being done somewhere. I just hope the ‘pencegah maksiat’ is there to catch them.
and yet, people argue that UBDians ares graduates with great qualities
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Thats exactly what I meant by “tough” in the title. There is *too much* of them that theres no way we have enough force to handle them all. Made me realise one thing; that it’s not easy to run a country.
Comment by guy February 26, 2008 @ 3:22 pmFrom my opinion, there’s no one to be blamed. The individual who does these kinds of stuff are the ones who should be blamed. There are being influence from friends, tv, internet, etc. Most transparent is those who are in secondary level and after. But it all depends on individuals’s way of positive thinking.
Comment by Hantu February 27, 2008 @ 5:54 amAs I said, some, not all.
Comment by amyheidi February 27, 2008 @ 9:25 am;p
Comment by guy February 27, 2008 @ 9:56 amthe more one enforces, the more people rebel, I guess.
my lecturers at fos do not enforce us to wear tudung, and yet more than half the class will wear one.
Comment by amyheidi February 28, 2008 @ 9:21 amlet’s get something straight- MIB is not a hundred year old philiosophy, it’s from the 80s. The only people who really believe in it are those in their late 30s and 40s who were teens and 20 somethings when MIB was announced to the people. Everyone younger and older than that doesn’t relate to it, and probably never will.
Comment by PhantomS February 29, 2008 @ 1:55 pmA sad thing.
I’d say definitely not the authorities to be blamed. For i believed they’ve done the best that they possibly could to shape the youngs into being better beings for the country’s own future.
Shame – that’s the issue. If only they have that instilled in them, such things could have been avoided. But shame is partly gone, if not all.
Comment by TurtleHijau March 5, 2008 @ 5:52 pm